Idk, idc, idgaf.

Everything I wore & ate in Ibiza, the beauty products I packed and couldn't live without, and the mantra I'm living by this summer.

Aug 04, 2026

In case you needed to hear this: Life is way too short to spend it worrying about what other people think of you.

Want to post that thing on TikTok? Do it. Want to start a Substack? Do it. Wear the bathing suit, get the degree, take the trip, go after what YOU want, always. The most embarrassing thing in the world is to not try at all.

So whenever you find yourself feeling down, or judged, or embarrassed, repeat after me: idk, idc, idgaf. I’ve been repeating this mantra to myself all summer and it’s been life-changing.

Ibiza Outfits

Quick note: Ibiza is THE island of duality. It can be wellness and it can also be ragers until 10am. It’s a choose your own adventure and therein lies the task of finding the balance. The island is full of healers, hikes, rituals and remedies but also house music, wild parties, and massive clubs.

Long ago before podcasts were a thing, I had a show on Sirius XM called Finding the Balance (I was being serious when I said it’s kind of chic to be ahead of the curve) and while men do not have to deal with the world asking them how they find balance, it is something we should all take more seriously: to recharge, work on creative projects, take my kids out to dinner, have a girls night, learn a new skill, workout, show up for friends etc. Wellness is living well in abundance of love, gratitude, positive vibes and anything that excites your senses. So if you drink a bunch of cocktails with your girlfriends but have a stomachache from all the laughs and your head hurts the next day, I think you’re living well ~ plus there is a remedy for that ~ anywho this is what I wore in ibiza :)

Casablanca Sequin Crochet Dress, a splurge but well worth it - that said I’ve been trying to find a mini dress with the same vibe… this white one and this gold one from Revolve are both gorg and under $75 / Alexandra Beth tennis necklace

Bikini set is Myra Swim, and this very good hat from Monday Swim. Monday Swim also has a great bikini alt to the one I’m wearing above: the Palma bikini top which is available in a bunch of colors, and the Formentera bottoms which have a little more coverage

Guizio Estelle Backless Mini Dress / Same Los Angeles Ruffle Hem Mini is super cute and similar, I have it in pink! / Mango Pointed Heel Sandals (I think they’re out of stock but these I Am Gia wedges are too cute and $145 / tennis necklace from Alexandra Beth

First & foremost, I’m a phone strap girl, and this lemon one is the cutest I’ve ever seen / Hat is from Monday Swim and I’m obsessed with it, bikini top is from Myra but Monday also has this bikini top (my favorite “basic” black top) / Siedres mini knit shorts / shoes are from Amazon and they are SO comfortable, a great Row alt and less than $50, come in a bunch of colors / similar bangle set here, mine is from Zara but I can’t find it online / Alison Lou necklace stacked with my Alexandra Beth tennis one

Draped top is from Mango and on super sale right now, less than $20! / This sheer sequin midi skirt is from Siedres, it’s one of those items that you think you’ll only be able to wear once but it’s actually extremely versatile / shoes!!!!

Sunnies are from a brand called Rewrites but I’m also a fan of this $85 pair on Revolve / bucket hat is from LSpace & shoes are Amazon (you already know how I feel about them at this point) / very good shell earrings you can snag at & Other Stories right now! / I’m wearing the Kyoko pant from Elce Swim but they’re OOS, here’s a similar look (in blue!) that’s on sale at Mango right now

This ballet pink dress is an older colorway from Buci; they currently have it in cream and in a dreamy light blue. All of their clothes are absolutely stunning and look one-of-a-kind.

This bathing suit cover-up is from Frankies Bikinis and I LOVED it for this trip / Trusty bucket hat from LSpace / shoes from Amazon, once again — and yes they’re fine to wear on a boat and near water, I find them more comfortable and reliable than flip flops tbh / bangle set was a random purchase from Zara but I found a similar look & price on Asos

Swimsuit is from this amazing brand called Elce, here is the top and the bottom / Monday has a similar set in chili pepper red / bucket hat is from LSpace

Wearing the Christopher Esber pistachio Stone Cavern dress that unfortunately seems to be OOS everywhere / Bag is a vintage Fendi croissant that I found secondhand, there’s a few on Vestiaire Collective right now!

I’ve had this bikini for several summers now and I believe it’s old Christopher Esber (here’s an updated silhouette with a green colorway), I love this silhouette as a “basic” because I know I won’t get weird tan lines / Frankies Bikini’s also has a gorgeous strappy bikini set in more muted green that I love / this green bikini from LPA is also gorgeous / this Rat & Boa set is a true lime green

10 beauty products I couldn’t have lived without

Everywhere we ate in Ibiza

_{Hot tip: Dorsia was really helpful for setting up reservations}

Sa Capella, Casa Maca, and Cala Gracioneta are all owned and operated by Grupo Mambo and they were all exceptional.
Nudo was out of this world and one I had been wanting to visit since the last time I was on the island five years ago.
I also loved El Chiringuito and Jondal.